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In the heart of one of the world's most bustling cities lies a spectacle of human determination and endurance that transcends the urban landscape – the New York City Marathon. Each year, thousands of runners from across the globe converge upon the city that never sleeps to participate in the iconic race and navigating through the five boroughs of New York City.

Late last year, our own Emma Watty joined the masses in the famed race, and in Emma’s usual style of approaching things with an open heart, she gave it her all, and uncovered a profound connection with people and place that will remain with her forever. Her experience echoes the tales of many, highlighting that it is more than just a race; it's an experience unlike any other. From the intoxicating atmosphere of the starting line on Staten Island to the finish in Central Park, Emma explains to us that every step of the 42km journey is steeped in history, culture, and the unwavering support of millions of spectators lining the streets.

“You get a real sense of the city as you run through all the boroughs. The energy levels are the same throughout –insane levels of energy– but each borough has its own unique vibe.”

With music blaring from the buildings, and only the bridges free from crowds of supporters cheering, the atmosphere is electric and wills the runners on. “I didn’t stop smiling the whole time.” Emma adds.

Emma was inspired by the diversity of people connected to the event. People from all walks of life, and from all around the globe join in and they are met with extensive support from the people of New York City. “New Yorkers love this day,” Emma discovered, “They’re so proud of it. Even non-runners see it as their favourite day of the year.”

Taking part in the run presented Emma with the chance to meet Rob de Castella AO MBE. Rob was there in his capacity as a board member for the Indigenous Marathon Foundation, of which Emma is a supporter, backing 10 first-time marathon participants.

As part of the experience, Emma attended Mass at St Partick’s Cathedral, where an overflowing congregation gathered, and runners were given a special blessing before the race. It was here, where Emma learned that four of their parish priests were also participating.

“Anyone and everyone does this marathon, and everyone has their why.” Emma reflects.

Emma’s ‘why’ was to mark the 10-year anniversary of the passing of her daughter Sylvie, lost to Sudden Unexplained Death in Childhood (SUDC) at only 15 months old.

Under the banner ‘Sylvie Sunshine’ Emma has been running for, and with Sylvie since 2014. With each run, Emma and her family have attracted supporters in their hundreds, whether it be by running along with the family, or donating to SIDS and SUDC charities. However, one of the overwhelming outcomes for Emma has been how it has created a space for people to feel comfortable to talk about her daughter Sylvie.

“Our family have found a way to keep her alive in our hearts.”

Running, and more specifically running with community has also had the unexpected follow-on effect of giving others the space to share their own stories of loss. During these running events (or walks!) with friends, Emma values the sharing of real personal stories, and the depth of conversation that occurs. “It’s not just chit chat.” She emphasises, “It’s not just about Sylvie. There are so many stories out there.”

Like so many of the runs Emma has participated in, reaching the finishing line is always met with mixed emotion. “It was a real journey to get there, and crossing the (finish) line . . . there was a huge purge of emotion. Sylv and I had done it together.”

It was one of the greatest things I’ve ever done
Emma Watty | Class of 1993

Emma treasures that throughout her trip, her daughter Lena was there with her, and during the race was cheering for her from the side. “To share this with her was special.”

Emma goes on to laugh as she recalls that they nearly ruined her preparation for the marathon due to the extensive exploration of the city. “We hardly left a stone unturned. We got there and were doing 40,000 steps a day.”

In the days following the marathon, those that ran stand out from the crowd either due to the medal around their neck, or the characteristic post-run limp. Emma loved how this allowed further opportunities for connection from the simple act of running.

Emma sums it up best - “It was one of the greatest things I’ve ever done.”

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